QUESTIONS

 

Here are some commonly asked questions and answers.
You may also wish to refer to our Terms of Use page.

Getting started

Changing your setup

Communicating with other members

 

Getting started

How do I join Adult Singles?
Click on Join Now and complete the form. Once you have completed this application form successfully, you can immediately search for other members, send them messages and send them winks.

The next step is for Adult Singles to approve your membership. Once your membership has been approved, other members will then be able to see your details, assuming that you have made them publicly visible.

What if I've forgotten my password?
There is a "forgotten password" link on the left side panel, just above the Enter button. Clicking on this link will result in an email being sent to you with your password.

What do I need to do in order to add my Photo's?
If you are not already logged in, do so. You should see a link called "Your Photos" in the left side panel. Click on this link. You can select either your public or your private gallery. A photo that is only in your private gallery, will only be visible to other members if and when you make it the main portrait photo. Whereas all photos in your public gallery can be seen by other members, whether or not they are the main portrait photo.

You should also see a Browse button. Clicking on this Browse button allows you to select a photo from somewhere on your own computer. This photo should be a GIF or JPG file which is less than 3MB in size.

Once you have selected your photo, press the Send File button to upload your photo to the server. This may take anywhere from a few seconds to a few minutes, depending upon the size of your photo file and the speed of your Internet connection.

Repeat the above process to add more photo's.

The next step is for Adult Singles to approve your photos. Once they have been approved, you can select which photo you want to be the main portrait photo. This will be the photo that other members will see first and should be your best photo.

You can delete a photo from your gallery, by pressing the red cross symbol beneath the photo you want to remove.

How do I upgrade my membership?
If you are not already logged in, do so. You should see a link called "Upgrade Your Membership" in the left side panel. Click on this link. You can then select the membership option you want and then pay online using Paypal. Please contact us if you encounter any difficulties.

 

Changing your setup

Can I make changes to my description?
Yes. If you are not already logged in, do so. You should see a link called "Edit your Portrait" in the left side panel. Click on this link. Make the changes you want and then press the Send button at the bottom to save the changed information.

Can I change my visibility to others?
Yes. If you are not already logged in, do so. You should see a link called "Edit your Settings" in the left side panel. Click on this link. You can change your Email settings, your Visibility settings and whether you want a Newsletter or not. Then press the Send button at the bottom to save the changed information.

What is my Hot list and how do I edit it?
Your Hot list is a convenient list of other members that you're particularly interested in!

You add someone to your Hot list by first viewing their details.You should then see a round white button with a H in it, on the right hand side. Clicking on this button allows you to add that person to your Hot list.

You can view your Hot list by first logging in (if not already) and selecting "Your Hot/Ban lists" from the left side panel. Clicking on a particular username will bring up their full details. You can also remove someone from your Hot list from this page.

What is my Ban list and how do I edit it?
Your Ban list is a list of other members that you want to stop from contacting you.

You add someone to your Ban list by first viewing their details. You should then see a round white button with a B in it, on the right hand side. Clicking on this button allows you to add that person to your Ban list.

You can view your Ban list by first logging in (if not already) and selecting "Your Hot/Ban lists" from the left side panel. Clicking on a particular username will bring up their full details. You can also remove someone from your Ban list from this page.

 

Communicating with other members

How do I do a Search?
There are three ways you can search.

The first way is to press the Search button on the top menu bar. This brings up the Quick Search page, where you can search by username (if you already know it) or by age, sex and locality.

The second way is by logging in first, if not already logged in, and pressing the "Advanced Search" link. Leave fields blank where you don't care about that particular field. If you want to save the search criteria for later, enter a name for your search (eg. "tall brunettes") near the bottom of the page. Then press the Find button.

The third way of searching is to re-use a previously saved search. You need to be logged in and then press the "Saved Searches" link from the left hand panel. You can then selected a saved search from the drop-down list (eg. "tall brunettes") and press the Find button to re-run that search on the latest database of members.

How do I view someone's details?
If you know their username, search for them using the Search button on the top menu. Or see other ways of doing a search. Once the search results page displays their summary details, click on their username. This will bring up their full portrait details.

What do other members see if they click on my username?
They should see the same details that you see if you log in and then select the "Your Portrait" link from the left hand panel.

Can I send someone a Message?
Yes, you can send someone a Message by first viewing their details. Then press the envelope symbol at the right hand side.

How do I ban someone from sending me messages?
See answer to the Ban list question.

Can I send someone a Wink?
Yes, you can send someone a Wink by first viewing their details. Then press the wink symbol at the right hand side.

How do I chat?
Once you have logged in, select Chat from the top menu. Then enter your username and password into the boxes indicated and press the Chat button at the bottom. You can set your own text colour by moving the slider at the bottom right. Type your text into the text window at the bottom and press the Send button to send your chat message to the chatroom. Press Exit at the top right when you have finished your chat session.

How can I post a message onto the community message board?
Once you have logged in, select Com. Msg from the top menu. Then click on the State (NSW, VIC etc). You can then enter the title for your message and the message contents. Press the Send button to post your message onto the Community Message Board. Please allow up to 24 hours for admin approval.

How can i see how many messages and winks others have sent me?
The first page that comes up after you log in, shows how many messages and winks you have received today and in total, as well as how many people have viewed your portrait.

How do i know if someone is online or not?
If whilst viewing their details, you see a small computer symbol to the left of their main photograph, this indicates that they are online.